Providing a roof and food, etc. does not a good parent make.

*sighs* Thanks for that. I just feel guilty when I'm reaping the rewards of his hard work and commitment and then trash-talking him behind his back. I guess I need to know that it's okay to not like him as a person, even if I do respect what he's achieved. So thank you, hon, it's always such a relief to know that you understand and don't think it's wrong for me to feel this way. *huggles*