Oh I understand. I overreact, I do the bottled up then EXPLODE thing too. I haven't exploded in a while...uh oh....people'd better duck. You're right about a problem slipping away...when I had that fight with my dad that I posted about, having people say-yipes, that stinks actually made me forget why I was upset. *hugs* Hope you're not still upset-that's too much work.