Yeah I'd probably get annoyed if Tv!Kahlan was sobbing on everyone's shoulders every 5 minutes. I don't have issues with strong women crying, but doing it every 5 minutes, not so much. Then they just come across as weak and victim like. I prefer watching them fight to not cry in front of people because it shows their vulnerable side more than if they cried all the time.

Glad you liked my description of what happens to the folks confessed by a confessor. Yes some of them probably do go on to live a better life than they were living before being confessed and sadly some of them have died to protect her. I think that probably really bothers her since if they hadn't been confessed they might not have fought to protect her and gotten killed. She really doesn't like taking away their free will. Which is basically what happens to the confessed.