she had to promise some fancy ring and then never follow through and make me feel completely worthless.

I don't blame you at all for being pissed off. She sounds like a "toxic" friend you know, the ones you read about in Cosmo and Cleo? ROFL Yes, my choice of reading material is questionable at times. Anyway, to my thinking, someone who makes you feel that bad about yourself doesn't deserve you as a friend.

Like, wow, how insignificant I am, that she can't be bothered to make an effort for me.

This is why you need to dump her. People who make you feel like that just aren't worth it.

But you know what? It doesn't matter what anyone tells you, because we're on the outside looking in - it's different when you do actually care about the person, and you think about all the good times, you know? I mean, I've been through sorta the same thing with friends of mine, and it's really, really fucking hard. I don't envy the position you're in, I just want you to get some happy is all. *huggles*

It shouldn't be this hard!

No it shouldn't! lol

*sighs at own ships* Hotchily, I ask you. HOTCHILY. It makes me think of, like, tetchily or something. Not very elegant at all.

Ugh, I know. At least it's not as bad as Suliet. *shudders* I refuse to call Sawyer & Juliet that. REFUSE TO.

And wow okay, the Harry Potter fans are a little more creative with the naming for ships than other fandoms. Interesting.